Jesus and the Woman at the Well

08 Sunday Mar 2026

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization

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Discipleship, Evangelization, Faith, Friendship, Grace, Jesus, Jn 4:16, Jn 4:4, Jn 4:5-42, Living Water, Love, Mercy, Missionary Discipleship, OCIA, Order of Christian Initiation of Adults, Spiritual Thirst

Christ and the Woman of Samaria, by Benedetto Luti, via Wikimedia Commons

It is Sunday, March 8th, the third Sunday of Lent and, for us catechists and Elect in the Order of Christian Initiation of Adults (OCIA) process, it marks the First Scrutiny leading up to the Elect’s baptism at the Great Easter Vigil. The Scrutinies (over three consecutive Sundays) consist of Scripture passages which help us to look inside and see the truth about ourselves, our predominant faults and habitual sins; and the divine love and mercy that God bestows on us when we repent and learn to trust in Him.

Today’s Gospel was Jn 4:5-42, Jesus’ meeting with the Samaritan woman at the well. In this passage there are numerous messages that help us see our brokenness, our need for spiritual fulfillment, and our futile efforts for finding happiness outside of a relationship with our Lord. But, thankfully, it shows us the joy we will find when we accept the “Living Water” that Christ offers to quench our spiritual thirst, replacing all the other things we’ve tried which failed to satiate us.

As I prepared to facilitate a discussion on this gospel, focusing on our sinfulness and the grace and mercy we receive from God in spite of that sinfulness, I couldn’t help but see a message about evangelization, as well.

In verse 4, the line before the selected passage, we read that Jesus, “had to pass through Samaria” on his way from Judea to Galilee. Jesus didn’t have to pass through Samaria, He could have crossed the Jordan and gone around Samaria like any other cautious Jew. Passing through Samaria was risky business since Jews and Samaritans hated each other. Thus, Jesus must have had a purpose in mind that was worth risking His and His disciples lives. That purpose must have been to encounter the woman at the well.

Jesus set an example for us – even in the face of fear, we should still evangelize and be intentional about it. It’s unlikely any of us are at risk of losing our life by proclaiming the gospel and bringing Jesus to those who don’t know Him. In Jesus’ case, He already knew the woman’s history, that she had failed to find happiness in her relationships, and that she was a pariah in her village. In spite of her sinfulness, Jesus met her where she was and spoke to her heart. We, unfortunately, don’t have that supernatural luxury. Instead, we have to explore and learn more about the people we encounter through intentional friendship so we can meet them where they are when we do present the gospel message to them. It can feel awkward at first, but, with practice, you get the hang of it. The perceived risk lies in our expectations of whether we will succeed or fail. But what matters is simply that we try.

Another verse in this passage, verse 16, plays to evangelization where Jesus tells the woman, “Go call your husband and come back”. When she responds that she does not have a husband, Jesus reveals that He knows she has been married five times and that the man she is presently living with is not her husband. The absence of judgment and condemnation from Jesus is seen by the woman as mercy, a loving acceptance of who she is, and the essence of an immediate conversion. The woman ran home and told her whole village about Jesus, instantly becoming a missionary disciple. When we encounter others, it is our hope that, by accepting and loving them for who they are, and sharing the gospel message that God is infinitely more gracious than our efforts could ever be, they will also become missionary disciples who will then lead others to Christ.

Tradition tells us that the name of the woman at the well is St. Photina. She and her sons were martyred for their faith during the persecutions of Nero. Her feast day is Friday, March 20th. St. Photina, pray for us as we evangelize!

“My loving Jesus, may I always come to You seeking spiritual fulfillment from the Living Water that You give, and that it will be a spring that wells up within me for eternal life. I pray for the grace to love and accept those I meet as true spiritual brothers and sisters and lead them to You so that their spiritual thirst may also be quenched. Amen.”

(Jesus and the Woman at the Wellwas first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Welcoming the Stranger

24 Tuesday Feb 2026

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(A reflection on Matthew 25:31-46)

In the gospel for today, Monday, February 23rd, Matthew 25:31-46. Jesus tells his disciples that when the Son of Man comes, He will separate the sheep from the goats; that the sheep are those who fed the hungry, gave drink to the thirsty, welcomed the stranger, clothed the naked, cared for the ill, and visited the imprisoned, and the unfortunate goats are those who didn’t. It’s all about the charitable works of mercy.

With the Lenten season upon us we should be sincerely trying to live and grow in a deeper relationship with our Lord through focused prayer, fasting and almsgiving. However, our focus can easily become self-centered as we endeavor to stick with our plans to fast and improve our piety. But almsgiving, the charitable and outward looking aspect of the trio, can take a back seat. What can you do to avoid this?

Certainly you can increase your weekly contribution to the collection basket and let that serve the less fortunate in a variety of ways. You can easily feed the hungry by purchasing groceries and drop them off at your local food pantry, or invest a little more effort by serving at a food kitchen. You can clean out your closet and donate the seldom worn clothing to a charitable organization. You can care for the ill and imprisoned by visiting a nursing home. But, where will you fit welcoming the stranger into the mix this Lent?

Welcoming a stranger, someone you don’t know, is the first step in building a friendship. It helps the stranger feel comfortable in their new surroundings by removing some of the fear they may have built up inside them. And, In a very real sense, welcoming a stranger is the first step in evangelizing a stranger when the person being welcomed is a stranger to our faith even if we already know them. This could be someone who is un-churched, someone from another ecclesial community other than Catholicism, or even a lukewarm or fallen-away Catholic. The feeling of being welcomed and accepted by us for who they are as a wonderfully made child of God is necessary before any conversion will ever happen.

Fortunately most parishes have a plethora of opportunities during the Lenten season that can be avenues for evangelization through invitation, such as: Lenten missions, small group Bible studies, guest speakers, and no-pressure social functions. And don’t forget the friendly Friday fish fries and the all powerful Stations of the Cross! If you’re a self-starter and want to truly welcome strangers who are new to your parish, you can ask your parish office for their contact information so you can call them and arrange to meet for a cup of coffee at a local diner and offer to help them navigate their new parish surroundings. Or simply introduce yourself at Mass or an event to someone you’ve never met before. All of these are opportunities to evangelize by welcoming and inviting others to experience friendship and ultimately hear the gospel proclaimed.

So, who will you welcome and invite this Lent?

“Heavenly Father, this Lent I pray for the grace to grow closer to You by building self-control through fasting, by conversing with You more often in prayer, and in almsgiving by inviting others into a relationship with You, the best gift this side of heaven. Amen.”

(Welcoming the Stranger was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Take a Walk

13 Friday Feb 2026

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As Christians, we know we are supposed to follow and imitate Jesus by proclaiming the gospel message of salvation as He did. Yet, for so many of us, that is difficult to do. Why is that? It’s certainly not because someone else is restraining us. We don’t live in a country where it is illegal to live and talk about our faith. We’re not threatened with 20 years in prison because we’re Christian. We don’t live with the threat of having our village burned down because of what we believe. No, the difficulty lies completely within ourselves. Maybe it’s laziness, the busy-ness of life, letting other things become more important than God, fear, or simply a lukewarm faith. Whatever it is, it’s so familiar to us that we don’t even give it a second thought.

Today’s Gospel from Mark 7:31-37 is the story of Jesus healing a deaf man. What struck me about this passage was not the act of healing the man, nor that the witnesses defied Jesus and told others about it. Rather, it was the opening sentence, “Again he left the district of Tyre and went by way of Sidon to the Sea of Galilee, into the district of the Decapolis.” Since I have a love for geography and maps, I checked to see how far it was that Jesus actually walked. It’s about 30 miles north from Tyre to Sidon, and then another 60 miles south to the district of the Decapolis on the south side of the Sea of Galilee. That’s 90 miles on foot through rough and rocky territory. Why did He make such an effort?

Jesus wasn’t just out for a stroll. He had a purpose to bring the message of salvation to not only the Jews but to the gentiles, as well. His method was to go out and build relationships with people, meeting them where they were in whatever physical, mental, emotional, or social state they were in. Let’s contrast His effort with how much effort we’re willing to expend. Most of us today live in some form of self-imposed isolation. It’s easier to not tidy up our home and stay hidden there than to invite another over for hospitality. Rather than get out of our vehicle to meet other parents while waiting in the school pickup line, it’s easier to stare at our screens. Rather than recognize the poor and needy, it’s easier to keep our heads down and walk fast around them. The list of lame reasons can go on forever.

God made us for each other. He comes to us through other people, our families, friends, and the strangers around us. Conversely, God reaches them through us, too. Behind our fast-paced and technological culture, our souls are screaming for the peace we get from a little silence and solitude, yet they still need to be nourished by healthy, interdependent relationships, both old and new.

We need to get off the couch or away from our desks, get off our screens, take a walk, and meet others who might just need to meet us. While we’re at it, we should think about the restraints we’re imposing on ourselves that keep us from following in the footsteps of our Lord. And then think about how we will explain this when it’s time for our particular judgment.

“Heavenly Father, thank You for the many gifts you bestow on me, especially the gift of faith. Thank You for my family and friends who sustain me and through whom I find joy. Help me, Lord, to grow that circle and be the friend who sustains someone else in need. Amen.”

(Take a Walk was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Winter Respite

26 Monday Jan 2026

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Renewal

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Beauty, Charity, Community, Evangelization, Faith, Gratitude, Love, Nature, Prayer, Psalm 96, Respite, Snow, Thanksgiving, Winter

Wow! I knew it had been a while since I last posted, but four months and two days is longer than I’ve ever gone!. Let’s fix that.

It’s a laid back day, just right for a laid back reflection. Nothing too profound. Just something as relaxed as I am right now sitting by a cozy fire in the fireplace, staying warm on this frigid 8 deg. F (-13 deg. C) January day. We received 12 inches of snow yesterday here in southwest Ohio. The sun is getting low in the sky and everything is stunningly beautiful: clear blue sky and blueish-white shadows of the trees on a blanket of undisturbed pure white snow! It makes me wish I knew how to paint so I could capture this. But I know everything created by man pales in comparison to the breathtaking beauty God provides.

I have to admit, however, that yesterday, Sunday, the Lord’s Day, wasn’t too restful. It was overcast with no sunshine and, although the snow was beautiful, I couldn’t help but feel anxious about how much snow we would get, whether we could make it the eight miles to church for Mass, and how much work it would be today digging ourselves out. Now, looking back on yesterday’s fretting, I should have trusted in God’s providence and less on my inability to control things.

I’m one of those who many call strange as I’d rather a cold winter day than a scorching hot summer day. I sent photos of the sidewalks I shoveled today to my daughters and one of them suggested I get a snow plow for my lawn mower. I responded that I like to shovel snow. It’s good exercise if you don’t work too hard at it, gets you outside into fresh air, and makes you appreciate the beauty of it all that much more.

While outside, I kept an eye on our bird feeders to make sure they weren’t being depleted. Our feathered-friends – cardinals, finches, and titmice – have enjoyed a feeding frenzy. I feel sorry for the dark-eyed junkos, though, since they’re not perching birds but hang out on the ground hoping the other birds will drop them a morsel or two.

Due to the snow covered roads, our parish office was closed today so I didn’t have to go in to work this morning. It gave me more time to spend in mental prayer. Instead of feeling rushed as I often am, it was nice to have more time in conversation with our Lord. It struck me that God gives us days like this – unexpected reprieves from the daily grind – to slow down and reconnect with Him. It was upon reading the Scripture for the day, specifically the responsorial to Psalm 96, “Proclaim God’s marvelous deeds to all the nations”, with a view of the snow covered ground outside the window in front of me, that prompted the nudge to finally write again.

As much as I love the beauty of a day like this, I know there are many others, especially those in Tennessee and Mississippi today, who are cursing what feels like misfortune for the heavy ice they received, as opposed to snow, that has caused severe tree damage and consequently wide-spread power outages. Shoveling snow today gave me an opportunity to pray for them, for their safety, and that they accept with grace and give thanks to God for their own chance to draw closer to Him. While many lives have been disrupted because of things outside of human control, He has created opportunities for people to love and be charitable to each other: offering shelter, cutting and removing trees in neighbor’s yards, assisting stranded motorists, and such. Having lived through hurricanes on the Gulf coast, I know communities grow stronger as a result of natural disasters.

Tomorrow I go back to work looking for ways to evangelize people and for ways to encourage people to evangelize. But, today has been a welcome day of respite even though I’ll be sore tomorrow because of the snow shoveling. I’ve overcome my writer’s block, and I’m thankful for that. But, right now, it’s time to add another log to the fire.

Peace and blessings to each of you.

“Almighty God, thank you for this day, for allowing me to be a part of it, for the grace to recognize your love in the beauty you create, and for the opportunity to draw closer to you. Amen.”

(Winter Respite was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Are You Ready to Proclaim the Gospel?

24 Wednesday Sep 2025

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There is a movement going on. In the wake of the assassination of Christian influencer and “almost, but not yet, Catholic”, Charlie Kirk, many folks in the U.S. have jumped off the fence into the greener pasture of Christianity, and many have gravitated to the Catholic Church. Yet, while Kirk’s death might be a catalyst for the conversion of many, this movement to return to morality and a spiritual life – or, in other words, a relationship with Jesus that satisfies more than relative worldly pleasures – has been developing for a while. For three consecutive years our little parish has experienced a record number of adults and youths entering our OCIA process and desiring to become Catholic. This year we have 56 catechumens and candidates enrolled, more than the last two years combined.

As always, we have some who are choosing to become Catholic because their spouse or fiancee’ is Catholic. Some have been influenced by friends, and some have decided their Protestant services are not fulfilling them. But the majority are making the decision because they know there is something more to life, and specifically to a life of faith, than they’ve been experiencing. They are searching for truth….and they are in the right place!

Just as we would react to a change in the weather forecast, we should prepare ourselves for this spiritual shift in our culture because the likelihood of being asked about our faith is increasing. Instead of asking, “What will I wear for tomorrow’s weather?”, we should be asking, “What will I say when someone asks me why I am a Christian or, more specifically, Catholic?”, and, “Will I be convincing?”. Another’s conversion may depend totally on our response.

In today’s Scripture passage, the verse before the Gospel is from Mark 1:15. They are the very first words Jesus says when he begins His Galilean ministry: “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.” ….Believe in the gospel! If one of these people seeking to know more about your faith asks you, “What does it mean to believe in the gospel?”, would you be able to answer them? If not, don’t feel alone. I suspect eight out of ten Catholic Christians may also be stumped. But, don’t you think you should be able to provide a satisfactory explanation?

In his homily on Sunday, September 21st, Fr. Mike Schmitz gave us a four-part recipe to answer these questions. “This is the Gospel”, he says:

That God is good and made the world good, and made us in His image and likeness;

We freely chose to break the world with our sin, but God did not abandon us;

He sent His only begotten Son so that we could have eternal life;

And, we respond to that in faith and put our trust in Him, the One who has entrusted us with all of His grace so that we could have new life.

This is the truth, the reason for our faith. It’s what it’s all about. This is the kerygma, the essence of the proclamation of the Gospel. To effectively evangelize, we should commit these four points to memory. Will you do that? Write it on a sticky note. Repeat it daily until it becomes rote. Then look for opportunities to share it with others. You may just save a soul.

“Generous God, if I learn and remember nothing else from today, help me to commit the kerygma to memory, to live in accordance with it, and proclaim it at every opportunity. Your words are infinitely and eternally more important than any news headline, any sports team’s statistics, or the intriguing messiness of a celebrities life. If proclaimed, they may effect the salvation of someone’s soul. May I have the grace to deliver them. Amen.”

(Are You Ready to Proclaim the Gospel? was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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A Prayer for Continued Progress

04 Thursday Sep 2025

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Body of Christ, church, Colossians 1:9-14, Faith, Grace, Holiness, Meditation, Prayer, Resolution, Scripture

A reflection on Colossians 1:9-14

The first Scripture reading for today is from Colossians and, in my New American Bible, it’s labeled, “Prayer for Continued Progress”. In it, St. Paul affirms that he and Timothy continue to pray for the Church in Colossae for growth in holiness. My first thought as I read this was that it is a great prayer to say for the men to whom I serve as their Spiritual Mentor. And then I thought why limit it to just those ten men, why not pray it for all my friends and all the faithful in my parish? Then, why stop there, why not pray it for the entire body of Christ?

Thinking I had just determined what my resolution would be for today to do God’s will, I began to wrap up my prayer time. But then the thought came to me, what if someone else is praying this same prayer and it is me who is the object of their prayer? Am I doing all that they are desiring of me for growth in holiness? With that, I had to reopen my Bible and read the passage again from a personal point of view.

“Therefore, from the day we heard this, we do not cease praying for you and asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding…” (v.9).

Do I know His will for me? Can I articulate it? Do I spend time daily in prayer discerning His will and resolving to do it that day?

“…to live in a manner worthy of the Lord, so as to be fully pleasing [to Him]…” (v.10a)

Do I live my life in a manner that is worthy of Jesus and in a way that pleases Him?

“…in every good work bearing fruit…” (v.10b)

Do my actions and the way I live my faith bear fruit for the Kingdom? Am I doing what I need to do to bring Jesus to others or bring others to Jesus?

“…and growing in the knowledge of God…” (v.10b)

Do I consistently make the effort to grow in understanding my faith and grow in my relationship with the Lord? Do I have a good grasp of our Catechism and knowledge of the saints?

“…strengthened with every power, in accord with His glorious might, for all endurance and patience, with joy…” (v.11)

Do I receive the Sacrament of the Eucharist regularly so as to be strengthened to face the trials of day to day life, to be patient and humble when things don’t go my way, and yet find joy in not only the process but the outcome?

“…giving thanks to the Father, who has made you fit to share in the inheritance of the holy ones in light.” - (v.12)

Am I grateful for all that God has given me, even those things which I did not choose, didn’t like, and couldn’t change because He knew them to be in my best interest?

“He delivered us from the power of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.” - (vv. 13-14)

Do I believe and accept that Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross was for my redemption, that He has forgiven my sins, and do I attempt to lead a sinless life but repent when I fall short?

Wow! That was an exercise I hadn’t planned on today! A line from a Jerry Jeff Walker song, “The hardest thing for a man to do is look inside and see the truth about himself” easily came to mind. Yeah, there are some things I do better than others, but I really need to work on a couple of these.

In reading this passage, what is God putting on your heart to ask yourself? What can you work on today to grow in holiness?

“Generous and loving God, thank You for letting me see how I can use Your Word in today’s Scripture for not only the benefit of others but my own as well. I pray for the grace to work and improve on the one or two that need prompt attention. Amen.”

(A Prayer for Continued Progress was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Be Like the Thessalonians

25 Monday Aug 2025

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1 Thessalonians 1:1-5, 1 Thessalonians 8-10, Faith, Mass, Mt 23:13-22, Talk the Walk, Virtue, Walk the Talk

In today’s first reading, 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5, 8-10, St. Paul and company praise the Thessalonians for not only proclaiming the gospel to people in other cities and cultures, but for living lives of virtue that exemplify their faith. This contrasts with today’s gospel, Mt 23:13-22, in which Jesus castigates the Pharisees and Scribes for their hypocrisy, for saying one thing and doing another, thus leading the people down a path of confusion that replaced worship of God with worshipping God’s gifts.

As faithful of Christians that we are, we can too easily fall into the same trap as the Pharisees and Scribes. We can be seen going to church every Sunday, sitting in the pews and following the rubrics, yet let distractions keep us from fully participating in the Mass with our inner eye on the sacrifice that is taking place in front of us – the real reason we are there. But, even if our full attention is focused on Jesus during the Mass, we may live separate and disconnected lives once we walk out the doors. Or, we may do all the right things and live virtuous lives, but still fail to proclaim our faith in words.

If we are to truly live our faith and spread the gospel as Jesus instructed us, we should endeavor to connect all the pieces together: what others see in us and what they hear from us. We need to walk the talk and talk the walk like the Thessalonians. We could ask ourselves, “If St. Paul, Silvanus, and Timothy were observing me today, could they say the same about me as they did to the Thessalonians? Have my actions become such a rote habit that I’ve lost the real meaning of Mass and purpose for worship, that is, to not only receive the Gift, but to worship the Giver of the Gift? Am I experiencing the joy and thanksgiving in my faith that is necessary for others to want some of what I have? Am I loving my ‘neighbor’ and desiring their good by helping them establish a relationship with the One Who truly loves them for who they are?”

Maybe take a few moments and spend time with Jesus in prayer, asking Him what He thinks you can do to be more like the Thessalonians.

“Heavenly Father, today’s Psalm reminds me to sing songs of praise of You, the One Who loves me and takes delight in me, Your creation. May I never forget the sacrifice of love You made for me. Help me, Lord, to walk the talk and talk the walk so that others may come to praise you as well. Amen.”

(Be Like the Thessalonians was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Be Magnanimous Like Mary

15 Friday Aug 2025

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The Assumption of the Virgin Mary, Peter Paul Rubens, cir. 1616-1618; Wikimedia commons

Today we celebrate the Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, honoring the day our Blessed Mother was taken into heaven, body and soul, at the end of her earthly life. The Gospel today, Luke 1:39-56 recounts Mary’s visit to Elizabeth (vv 39-45), and Mary’s response to Elizabeth’s greeting, her Magnificat (vv 46-55).

As I listened to the gospel being read at Mass this morning, I found myself marveling at Mary’s magnanimity. Here was a young woman, pregnant, who had just walked or rode a donkey nearly a hundred miles over several days, weary and probably hungry, and her humility still allowed her to express her joy and gratitude to God for the special gift she’d been given. Hers was the greatest gift that God could possibly give, the honor, but tremendous responsibility, of bearing His only Son. I wondered why we have difficulty recognizing and being grateful for the amazing gifts God gives to us, and being magnanimous in expressing that gratitude to others.

Mary begins her Canticle saying, “My soul magnifies the greatness of the Lord” (v46). How often do we proclaim the greatness of the Lord?

She continues,“My spirit rejoices in God my savior.” (v47). Would a casual observer say that our spirit is rejoicing in God our savior?

“He has looked upon His handmaid’s lowliness; behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed.” (v48). Do we realize that we are blessed to be His beloved in spite of our brokenness?

“The Mighty One has done great things for me; and holy is His name.” (v49) Do we give credit to God for all the good things he has done for us in our lives?

“His mercy is from age to age to those who fear Him.” (v50). Do we love God enough to turn to Him in reconciliation and let His mercy flow over us, absolving us of our sins?

Because of her humility, God chose Mary to be the one to bring Jesus to us, you and me. It’s her role, too, to bring us to Jesus. Being the loving Mother that she is, she’s giving us an example of how we should live our lives, to be magnanimous like her.

Think about it and resolve to grow in this virtue. Not only will you grow in holiness, but it can be a simple and effective way to evangelize others by letting them experience your joy.

“Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of Your Son, Jesus, whom you gifted to us through Your beloved Mary. Help us to emulate her humility by being grateful for all the wonderful gifts you give us each day even though we do not deserve them, especially the gift of the Holy Eucharist. We are not worthy to have You enter under our roof, yet you give us Yourself in that Blessed Sacrament. Mary, Cause of Our Joy, pray for us! Amen.”

(Be Magnanimous Like Mary was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Are You an Average Catholic?

20 Sunday Jul 2025

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For eight days from June 26th through July 3rd, I had the pleasure of being on pilgrimage to Rome, Italy along with three other parish Directors of Evangelization, and five from our Archdiocese Center for New Evangelization. This being the Jubilee Year of Hope, as well as having a new pope, made it a special trip. A particularly special occasion was being able to celebrate Mass inside St. Peter’s Cathedral Basilica on the Feast of Sts. Peter and Paul with Pope Leo XIV as celebrant.

St. Peter’s Basilica altar baldacchino, by Bernini.

This was my second pilgrimage to Rome, the first being in 2019. Of course, when you go to Rome, you have to visit the major cathedrals and basilicas in and around the Vatican. We visited St. Peter’s, St. Mary Major, St. John Lateran, and St. Paul Outside the Walls, all marvelous examples of renaissance architecture and elaborate baroque sculpture and art. It truly is beautiful beyond words! However, this year, it was astoundingly beautiful because it is a jubilee year and a boat load of money was spent cleaning and polishing everything. The skill of the artists, sculptors, and craftsmen, men like Michelangelo, Raphael, Bernini, and so many others, is purely mind blowing!

Domed apse of St. Paul Outside the Walls

It is beautiful, no doubt, but unless you make notes in a journal, It’s almost impossible to remember where a photograph was taken. And after three or four days of gawking at the grandeur, it all started to run together. I began to wonder why I was there, what was God’s plan for me? Was it just to be impressed with the beauty? No, there had to be more. The underlying purpose of our pilgrimage was to go deeper in our faith so that we would be inspired to encourage people in our parishes to better evangelize. Unfortunately, I wasn’t feeling any special inspiration. So, each day I prayed for an answer to my question, “Why am I here?”

St. Bartholomew holding a knife representing his martyrdom by being filleted alive, at St. John Lateran

One morning we visited the catacombs of St. Calixtus, where, in the 2nd through 4th centuries, nearly a half million Christians were buried, a majority of whom were martyred for opting to profess rather than deny their faith. It was their courageous faith that convinced so many Roman pagans to convert even knowing that they might be the next to be executed. As we meandered through a small portion of the 20 kilometers of underground corridors that were lined with now vacant graves stacked eight to ten high, it was easy to imagine the persecutions they endured and all the hideous and creative ways they were tortured.

On our last day in Rome we ventured into the city center and visited several minor basilicas within a couple block radius of Piazza Navona, an oval plaza that was once a center for Roman foot and chariot races, as well as for putting Christians to death. On the piazza sits the minor basilica of St. Agnes, a smaller church but still beautifully adorned with magnificent paintings and sculptures, but specifically of martyrs.

Altarpiece of St. Agnes in flames, by Ercole Ferrara, 1660.

The church is dedicated to St. Agnes, the 3rd century 12-year old virgin who refused to abandon her faith and succumb to the advances of prominent Roman men. She was martyred by beheading after attempts to burn her at the stake were unsuccessful. Also honored are St. Emerenziana, Agnes’ sister who was stoned to death for opposing the pagans who were trying to prevent Agnes’ body from being buried; St. Sebastian, a converted Roman soldier who was martyred by being shot through with arrows but not killed, and then thrown into the sewers where he died; and St. Cecilia, a young girl who was discovered to be a Christian and was beheaded.

Altarpiece of St. Sebastian, by Pietro Paolo Fields, 1719

There, before the statues and relics of St. Agnes and these other martyred saints, with tears running down my cheeks, my prayer was answered. With unbelievable awe and respect for these martyred faithful men, women, and children, the Holy Spirit convinced me that I was there to fully comprehend what it means to not be afraid to profess one’s faith, so that I could help others to not be afraid.

There, in the moment, I was struck by the relative comparison between these martyrs who risked and sacrificed their lives, and the average Catholic in our world today. How many Catholics refrain from saying grace before dinner at a restaurant because of what other people might think? Too many. How many will not say “God bless you!” to a stranger and mean it because they’re afraid of confrontation? Again, too many. How many are afraid of being questioned about their faith because they know they haven’t done what they should do to be properly catechized? Way too many. How many are willing to risk asking someone who is obviously hurting if they can pray for them? Not too many, but too few. I don’t mean to judge, but generally speaking, we are weak in our faith. So many have forgotten, if they ever actually knew, what it means to be Christian. Jesus said,

“Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you and utter every kind of evil against you [falsely] because of me. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven.” (Mt 5:10-12)

Those early Christians – St. Agnes, St. Cecilia, St. Sebastian, St. Emerenziana, and all the martyrs in the catacombs of St. Calixtus – died with hope, hope in the glory of heaven. They understood it so well that they embraced the prospect of being persecuted and put to death by torturing far worse than a disapproving glance from the diners at the next table over.

Sadly, I get it. Been there, done that, and got the t-shirt. But thankfully it doesn’t fit me any more because I’ve learned it’s not hard to overcome that fear. In fact, the mere chance that I might cause another to ask me about my faith far outweighs the risk. So, just start. Start small and go from there. If someone sneers at you for thanking God for the food you are about to receive, just smile at them and thank the Lord for them, too. Trust in the Lord to be with you, and pray that you might be the one to inspire someone else to turn to Jesus.

Remember His words, “Do not fear!” And resolve to ask yourself every now and then, “Am I just an average Catholic?”, for, if you are to fear anything, it is just that.

“Loving Father, thank You for the gift of faith and for the fortitude to protect and defend that gift. Nevertheless, You and I know that I need constant strengthening. May I receive that grace every time I receive You in the Holy Eucharist, remembering the sacrifice You made for me. I ask You Lord, and all the holy martyrs in heaven, to help me and all Your faithful to demonstrate our faith with courage and zeal. Amen.”

“Are You an Average Catholic?”was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

Practice Makes Perfect

10 Thursday Jul 2025

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization

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Apostles, Evangelization, Faith, Faith sharing, Friendship, Jesus, Mt 10:1-7, Small group

In yesterday’s gospel, Mt 10:1-7, Jesus sent his apostles on mission to announce that the kingdom of heaven is near. He specifically told them to go to the lost sheep of the house of Israel rather than to pagan territory and Samaritan towns. This is in contrast to his instructions in Mt 28:19 when, after his resurrection, he commands them to “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations…”. In both cases, Jesus is telling them, and us, to evangelize. But why the difference?

It seems as though Jesus is giving the twelve a chance to practice evangelizing to those, who, unlike the pagans, already knew the teachings of the law of Moses and the prophets and would be more receptive to their message. He knew that taking the Word to all nations would be much more difficult. They needed to start slow and hone their skills along the way.

There is a message here for all of us, too, who, through our baptism, are also obligated to be evangelists on mission. We need to continuously increase our knowledge and understanding of our faith, and become more skillful at professing it, before we can expect to be proficient at making disciples of all nations. We need to begin with baby steps.

The best way to do this is to spend time with our friends in conversation about our faith, discussing the message of the gospel and what it is saying to us. I’m sure the apostles spent time together out of earshot from Jesus discussing all that they were learning, and sharing what it meant to them. By sharing our thoughts and insights in small faith sharing groups, or faith-based conversations over a meal with friends, we strengthen our faith and grow in virtue, and are better prepared to articulate to others His message of salvation.

I’m sure your parish offers opportunities to gather with other men and women in small faith-sharing groups and Bible studies at which you can safely share what it is that you hear God saying to you, and listen to and learn from others about the graces they receive through prayer and service. But, you don’t have to depend on your parish to organize groups or meetings. You can simply start from scratch by inviting friends to your house for a meal, spend a relaxing Sunday afternoon getting to know each other better, and interjecting faith based conversation into the experience. Do this enough and it will become second nature. Whether you realize it or not, you will be evangelizing each other. And, you will eliminate the fear that accompanies the prospect of evangelizing to people you don’t know.

“Lord Jesus, thank You for giving me insight into how to become a more effective evangelist, and for Your patience while I learn. You know I can’t go from zero to sixty in three seconds, but need space and time to accelerate slowly. You gave Your Apostles three years and even then they hesitated. I pray for the grace to grab hold of the opportunities to evangelize when You place them before me. Amen.”

(Practice Makes Perfect was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)