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Evangelization Happens at the Pace of Relationship

11 Wednesday Sep 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization

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Catholic, church, Culture change, Evangelization, Friendship, Jesus, Love, Love of Neighbor, Mercy, Relationships

In just over a week autumn will be here and summer will officially be over.  With school starting, most parishes have wrapped up their festival season, had their parish picnics, and are beginning to prepare for the season of Advent.

Our parish family had its picnic in August.  (Perhaps I need to explain what I mean by “parish family”.  We have a priest shortage forcing our Archdiocese to combine parishes into parish families.  Our “family” consists of two established churches whose boundaries abut each other.)  To help transition from two parishes into one canonical parish with two campuses, we had one picnic for both churches.  

I made it a point to wander around and meet people I didn’t know and to get reacquainted with folks I hadn’t seen in a while.  I saw one couple whom I had not seen in four or five years sitting alone.  They regularly attend the church that I don’t usually attend.  They were eating their meal so I sat down with my plate of food and we reconnected.  I asked them how long they had been parishioners and they replied they’d been there about nine years.  I said, “You must know a lot of folks here, then.”  They looked at each other and replied, “No, not really.”  I responded, “That’s too bad, do you feel welcome here?”  They again exchanged glances and replied, “No, not really.”

Sadly, this is not an uncommon sentiment by many parishioners.  I’ve met too many people who feel the same.  They’ve attended church for years but have made no real friends.  People from the church I regularly attend have confided the same to me.  My family has experienced this with our many relocations.  And these days, because my wife and I travel often, we attend Mass at more than a dozen different churches each year and it’s rare that anyone takes the time to welcome our unfamiliar faces.

It’s easy for us to say that those who feel unwelcome are partly responsible due to their own introvertedness.  But that doesn’t excuse the rest of us.  We’re not all introverted, but even those who are can learn to be extroverted when called to be such.

By virtue of our faith we are all called to reach out to others and build up the body of Christ, the Church.  In other words, we are called to evangelize.  And evangelization happens at the pace of relationship.  Relationships are begotten when we intentionally meet and get to know each other.  Relationships build trust, and being trusted is essential when we are trying to proclaim the Gospel and bring others to, or closer to, Jesus.

Evangelization is often considered to be something we only do outside the church doors, to the un-churched.  We need to change our thinking.  We have to evangelize within our church family as well.  At any moment, parishioners like those I met at the picnic may decide that if they don’t meet anyone this Sunday, they’re gone!  Tragically, Catholics are leaving the faith in droves, partly because they do not feel welcome.  It’s a problem our Catholic culture has to overcome if we want to survive.  We have to get beyond the idea that our only responsibility is to attend mass each week and go to confession once a year.  Our Creed says we are “One”.  We need to start acting like we are all One family and loving the other as they deserve and need to be loved.  

We are called to be merciful like Jesus was merciful.  That includes practicing the Spiritual Work of Mercy of comforting the sorrowful.  We can’t keep looking past people like they are invisible, rather we have to understand that many are struggling, and that not everything is copacetic in their lives.  People going through a tough time need a listening ear.  A friendly smile and welcoming conversation can turn a difficult day into one of joy and hope.  The making of a new friend can end a life of loneliness.  And personally, the next new person you intentionally meet might just be your next best friend, the someone you need but just don’t know it yet.

Make it a point to meet someone new this Sunday or at your next parish activity.  Be intentional.  Attend a different mass, sit in a different pew, look for that spot in a pew next to someone you don’t know.  Then, after Mass, turn to them with an outreached hand and introduce yourself.  When they respond, take the conversation from there, listening to learn more about them.  It’s not that hard and you’ll be glad you gave it a try.

“Come Holy Spirit, rekindle in me and all those who have been Confirmed the virtue of fortitude to get out of our comfort zones and seek out those who need us.  Help us to look beyond ourselves and commit to bringing the love of Christ to others.  I thank You, Lord, for all those you have placed in my life who have reached out with a friendly hand and a comforting smile and made me feel a welcome member of our Catholic family.  Amen.”

(Evangelization Happens at the Pace of Relationship, was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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“Do You Love Me More than These?”

17 Friday May 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Bible Reflections

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Balance, Bible, Catholic, christian, Faith, Jesus, Jn 21:15-19, Love, Meditation, Mental Prayer, Order, Prayer, Rule of Life

In today’s Gospel, John 21:15-19, Jesus has just appeared to the disciples for the third time and has helped them catch a boat load of fish.  He and Peter are sitting around a campfire on the shore of the Sea of Tiberias having a conversation.  Jesus asks Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?”  Over the years I’ve read this passage dozens of times and today my attention was not drawn to Jesus asking Peter to feed and tend his lambs and sheep.  Today, I am pondering what Jesus means by “these”.

I imagine them sitting there together, and as Jesus asks the question, He is gesturing with His hands.  At what are they pointing?  Jesus could be pointing at the other disciples and asking if Peter loves Him more than the other disciples love Him.  Or, He could be pointing at the other disciples and asking if he loves them more than he loves Him.  Or, possibly, he’s pointing at the fish on the grill, the nets, or the boat and asking if Peter, the fisherman, loves those things more than Him.

I know that the Bible is God’s Word, and in it, especially the gospels, He is talking to us.  He could be asking Peter for any of those reasons, but what is He asking us today in those questions?  In the first possibility, it strikes me that one would have to be extremely judgmental and full of pride to think he/she loves Jesus more than other people love Him, especially one’s own friends.  It’s a no-win question, “yes” and “no” are both wrong answers.  Somehow I don’t think Jesus would put us in that predicament.

Answering the second option is also tricky.  Jesus tells us to love our neighbors as He has loved us.  Thus, to say we love one more than the other is, again, a Catch-22 situation, one that Jesus wouldn’t impose on us.

The third option, however, is certainly a possibility!  Peter’s worldly life revolved around his boat, nets and the fish he caught.  My life, and probably yours, too, is consumed with worldly things that too frequently eat up my time and draw my attention away from my Lord.  For the most part, they are good things:  work, family, relationships, food, rest, exercise, creating, admiring beauty, etc.  They are all good things, either created by God or created from the gifts given to us by God.  But, we get too attached to them in a disordered way.  We become workaholics and fail to give attention not only to God but to our loved ones; or we neglect our work which then fails to provide the necessities for our families.  Physically, we eat too much or too much of the wrong things, we exercise too much or too little.  We spend too much time looking at our screens for entertainment rather than admiring what is truly beautiful or creating beautiful things.

Can you imagine yourself in that scene, Jesus asking you that question?  Can you see His hands and arms spreading wide at all the stuff that draws your attention away from Him?  It’s all good stuff in its own way, but you know you’re way too attached to it.  And you know deep inside that it’s wrong, that it causes havoc in your life, that it’s the source of the imbalance and chaos that drives your anxiety and unhappiness.  There’s a hole in your life that these things are not filling.  It’s a God-sized hole that only God can fill.

How do you correct your course?  The answer is creating a personal Rule of Life, that is, identifying the most important things in life and putting them first, ahead of less important things, then determining how much time ought to be spent on each of those things.  I have a friend who considers a well ordered and productive life to be like following a recipe to bake a cake – you need the right ingredients (the things), the right amount or proportion of each ingredient, and incorporate them in the right order.  Of course, time for Jesus in the form of prayer, especially mental prayer meditating on His Word, needs to be one of those ingredients.  How much?  Try just 30 minutes a day, preferably first thing in the morning,  sitting with Him in silence and solitude, reflecting on His Word, loving Him and letting Him love you.  That 30 minutes will change your life.  

“Dear Jesus, we both know there are many things that draw me away from You, things that cannot bring the joy that You bring to life.  Thank You for helping me create a Rule of Life by which I generally keep all of “these” things in order, and first things first.  Yet, I know I often slip-slide.  Through my devoted prayer time with You, You give me the grace to correct my bearings when I drift off course.  Amen.”

(“Do You Love Me More than These?” was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Are You In or Out?

16 Thursday May 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization, Faith

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Bible, Catholic, christianity, Discipleship, Evangelization, Faith, Fear, Jesus, Jn 16:33, Jn 17:11-19, Trust

It’s Wednesday, May 15th, but I know this won’t get posted until tomorrow. I’m writing this right after my morning meditation on today’s Gospel, John 17:11-19.  After Jesus informed his disciples that he is going away (Jn 16) and they will have to take over from Him, He warns them of the trouble they will encounter from the world, but to have courage because He has conquered the world.  Now (Jn 17), He prays to God before them to consecrate them to the truth, sends them forth into the world to continue His mission, and prays, “for those who will believe in me through their word”.

As I put myself in that scene as one of the disciples, I feel anxious.  I am alarmed and sad that my Messiah, the One I love, is leaving me, and I am fearful because I now have a tremendous responsibility to carry on His mission even though I am hopelessly inadequate.  At the same time, I think about all the good He has brought to the world – the miracles, the lessons about right living, the healing, the interior peace – lessons that simply cannot be set aside and forgotten.  I have a decision to make:  do I just remember Jesus as a friend, teacher, and miracle worker, or do I continue His work, sharing this beautiful life, and help others come to know Him?

I realize that it’s really a no-brainer.  Up until now, I’ve just been tagging along on His robe-tail, letting Him do all the work.  Now He’s asking me, and trusting in me, to step up and take command.  He’s even asked God directly to help me…and I have no reason to believe His prayer won’t be answered no matter how afraid I am.  I have never felt more loved than when I’ve been with Him.  He has asked me to love others as He has loved me.  How can I do otherwise?

My decision:  I’m in.  I know it won’t be easy but I trust that He will be with me.  I’ll make mistakes.  I’ll fall occasionally.  He told me the world will work against me.  I’ll accept that, but I’ll find ways to deal with it and evangelize nevertheless.

What’s your decision?  Are you in or out?

“Lord Jesus, thank You for inviting me to a deep relationship with You, and Your trust in me to lead others to You. Thank You for the gifts You give when I receive You in Communion, the gifts of love for others, and of courage and strength to overcome my fear of evangelizing as I bring that love to them. Amen.

(Are You In or Out? was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Biscuits and Gravy

11 Thursday Apr 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization, Faith, Friendship

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Biscuits and Gravy, Catholic, Evangelization, Faith, Friendship, Missionary Discipleship, The Rescue Project

My southern-raised grandmother had a saying when she received something good over and above what she expected:  “Well, isn’t that just gravy on the biscuit!”.  This Lent our parish offered a faith-filled “biscuit” and got a heaping ladle of “gravy” thrown in.

Approximately ninety parishioners and parishioners-to-be gathered to experience The Rescue Project, a faith-building/evangelization program.   Participants sat at the same table of eight, and, over eight weeks, filled their bellies with good food and their minds and souls with delicious “biscuits” – an expected deeper understanding of our Catholic faith.

The “gravy” came in the form of evangelizing through developing friendships.  Many at the tables were strangers to each other, so table leaders had to be intentional about creating an inviting atmosphere for everyone to comfortably share their personal insights and what they received from the presentations.  This intentionality had to stem from a genuine interest in the other person and a desire to get to know their story.  With each successive week, participants became more comfortable and trusting, laughed and cried together, and became close friends.  Since the program ended, table members have arranged to meet for meals, for prayer, and have stayed in touch supporting each other in their daily walk with Christ.  

Everyone who attended The Rescue Project came to be inspired in their faith, and they left with much more – new friends with whom they could share their love for Jesus.  But, those ninety folks are not unique in the world.  There are millions just like them eager for friendship and the chance to tell their story if only someone is interested enough to listen. They are in our parishes, our neighborhoods, and our workplaces.  They are the people sitting next to you in the church pew, or the new parishioner who’s just moved to town and doesn’t know anyone.  They could be someone who is lost and despairing, who is blindly looking for salvation.  God put you in their path on purpose.

To be missionary disciples, we need to intentionally seek opportunities to be friends who can bring others to Christ.  We need to be welcoming and hospitable, and help others find joy in the world by delighting in them and helping them feel relevant, that they are beloved sons and daughters of God.  God made us for each other.  He shows His love for us through other people.  Your next best friend may just be the person you’re about to meet.  Delight in them.  Be the “gravy” on their “biscuit”.

“Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of faith, for the gift of friendship, and the opportunity to bring the two together.  Thank You for Fr. John Riccardo and his ACTS XXIX team for developing The Rescue Project.  Thank you for putting it on the hearts of so many in our parish to participate and bring the love of Christ to others.  Amen.”

(Biscuits and Gravy was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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From the Archives: Thoughts on the Total Solar Eclipse

08 Monday Apr 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Bible Reflections, Faith, Scripture

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Catholic, Disordered attachments, Eclipse, Jgs 2:11-12, Lk23:44-45, Mt19:21-22, Ps 106:36-37, Solar Eclipse, Total Solar Eclipse, Worldly Attachments

People in the U.S. are going crazy today, taking off work, traveling for hours to get in position to view the total solar eclipse that is passing over North America.  It truly will be a natural phenomenon to behold, and one more opportunity to marvel at the wonders displayed by the Creator of the universe.  Ask yourself, “From our vantage point on earth, the moon is the same diameter as the sun. Is it simply a coincidence that the sun is 390 times the diameter of the moon AND 390 times the distance from the earth as is the moon?” I don’t think so.

I’m fortunate that I don’t have to travel to be in the path of the eclipse.  It will be passing over my location in Lebanon, Ohio, between 1:53 p.m. and 4:25 p.m. with a maximum 99.8 percent coverage at 3:10 p.m.

The last total solar eclipse occurred on August 21, 2017.  As I was thinking about today’s event, I remembered writing a post on that day almost seven years ago.  Calling it up, I thought it was worth dusting off and posting again.

Thoughts on the Total Solar Eclipse

Today’s the day the scientific community and millions of regular folks across America have been waiting for:  the total solar eclipse.  The last one to occur was in 1979, and prior to that, the last to be visible from the contiguous 48 states was in 1918.    

From my perch here in southwest Ohio, the eclipse is supposed to begin at 1:02 p.m., peak at 2:28:41 p.m., and end at 3:52 p.m., almost three hours. The sky is clear and we should see a 90% eclipse.  

I don’t have any special dark glasses with which to look at the eclipse, nor did I make a pinhole viewer from a shoe box.  I’m just sitting here on my front porch waiting to see it get dark in the middle of the day. 

Waiting to see if anything special happens when the moon blocks out the sun.

I recall a story of an eclipse which happened about 2,000 years ago that also lasted about three hours.  

“It was now about noon and darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon because of an eclipse of the sun.  Then the veil of the temple was torn down the middle” (Lk 23:44-45).

It occurred in Jerusalem as Jesus was dying on the cross – a death demanded by the self-righteous of the time, most notably the Jewish scholars and priests who were blinded by their man-made beliefs to which they were attached and who refused to accept that God had finally sent their Messiah, the Son of Man, as He promised.

Their beliefs blocked out the “Son”.

I recall this morning’s Scripture passages:

“The children of Israel offended the Lord by serving the Baals.  Abandoning the Lord, the God of their fathers, who led them out of the land of Egypt, they follow the other gods of the various nations around them, and by their worship of these gods provoked the Lord.” (Judges 2:11-12)

“They served their idols, which became a snare for them.  They sacrificed their sons and their daughters to demons.”  (Psalms 106: 36-37)

“Jesus said to him, ‘If you wish to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.  Then come, follow me.’  When the young man heard this statement, he went away sad, for he had many possessions.”  (Matthew19:21-22)

Each of these passages spoke to me about how our society often puts other things ahead of God and His Son, Jesus, making it easy to turn away from Them.  These other things, our “possessions”, are our attachments, the habits and “important” stuff we can’t turn loose of.  They’re those things that keep us from focusing on, and spending time with, our Lord.  

They, too, block out the “Son”.

One has to wonder if the Church picked these passages specially for today.  But, I know they didn’t.  I also know it’s not just coincidence.  This is the way God works.

Perhaps, then, today, the day the moon eclipsed the sun, would be a good day to think about what things we allow in our lives to eclipse the “Son”, and what it will take to turn loose of them.

“Heavenly Father, I give you thanks for Your great glory.  Thank You for this world in which we live with all its wonders – Your Wonders.  Thank You especially for the greatest Wonder of all, Your Son, Jesus.  Holy Spirit, help me to turn loose of my unnecessary worldly attachments so that I may grow closer to Christ.  Amen.”

(From the Archives: Thoughts on the Total Solar Eclipse was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Ephphatha!

27 Wednesday Mar 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization

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Catholic, Curing of the Deaf/Mute, Ephphatha, Evangelization, Faith, Grace, Holy Saturday, Holy Spirit, Is 50:4-5, Mk 7:31-37, Prayer, RCIA

This Saturday morning, Easter Saturday, I will have the pleasure of leading eighteen adults and youths in the final rites before they are baptized and enter into full communion with the Church that evening at the Easter Vigil Mass.  One of those rites is the Ephphatha Rite, the opening of the ears and mouth of the Elect to help them more clearly hear and proclaim the Word of God.  The Rite is based on the curing of the deaf and mute man in Mark’s Gospel (Mk 7:31-37).

Saturday will be exactly eleven years to the day since I received this rite, the day I was baptized and became a Catholic Christian.  A remembrance of this came back to me this morning as I read today’s first reading:

The Lord God has given me a well-trained tongue, that I might know how to answer the weary a word that will awaken them.  Morning after morning he wakens my ear to hear as disciples do; the Lord God opened my ear, I did not refuse, did not turn away. – Is 50:4-5

More happened that day than my conversion becoming official.  God truly opened my ears and my tongue as well as allowing the words to flow from my brain through my hand to pen or computer keys.  I was never one to journal or record my thoughts on paper, in fact, I abhorred writing, was terrible with grammar and punctuation, and, most of all, didn’t dare say anything about a belief with which someone else might contend.  Yet, within two weeks, I began writing articles on this blog as a means to evangelize and lead others to a better understanding of their faith in hopes that they would grow closer to Jesus.  Now, eleven years and 300 blog posts later, I still feel the call.  

On March 30, 2013, I would have said you were crazy if you’d prophesied the future and said I would retire, go back to school to become a certified Catholic Spiritual Mentor mentoring dozens of men, and eventually be re-employed as Director of Evangelization and Adult Faith Formation within our parish.  Miracles happen, and, with God, all things are possible.  

“Good and gracious God, by Your grace, You joined me with holy people who accompanied me on this journey ever since I chose to follow You.  Through them, You taught me how to pray, how to converse with You, how to tell You what is on my heart, how to listen to Your promptings, and, especially, how to help others do the same so that their interior lives can flourish.  You opened my ears and loosened my tongue so that others may hear Your Word.  I give You thanks every day that when I heard Your calling, ‘I did not refuse, did not turn away.’  Amen.”

(Ephphatha! was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Why You Should Evangelize

24 Saturday Feb 2024

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Evangelization

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Jesus Preaching on the Mount, Gustave Dore, 1866

I’ve been in my position as Director of Evangelization for our parish family for about a year now.  The role has turned out to be more than I originally imagined it would be.  I wear several hats during the course of a day, and I often hear, “I saw your truck at the parish office late last night.”  To them I respond, “Yep, I’m loving it!  For the first time in twenty years I get up in the morning and look forward to going to work!”

Ministry work is as distinct as night and day to the corporate life I endured for thirty-six years before I retired.  While I may have grown weary of the grind, I enjoyed the hundreds of people with whom I worked and led, especially helping them learn how to perform their jobs well and understand why it was necessary.  Understanding the “why” behind a directive can inspire someone to move from poor or mediocre performance to high performance.  I think this principle applies to evangelization, as well.

The directive to evangelize came from Jesus, “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.” (Mt 28:19-20). Jesus didn’t explicitly answer the “why” question in this order, but He did give us inferences in the Gospels and inspired letters of the New Testament as to why he commanded this of us:

“because I came down from heaven not to do my own will but the will of the one who sent me…for this is the will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life…” (Jn 6:38-40)

“This is good and pleasing to God our savior, who wills everyone to be saved and to come to knowledge of the truth.” (1 Tm 2:3-4)

Jesus laid out the conditions of discipleship when he said we must deny ourselves and follow Him, that is, to do as He does and as He commands. (Mt 16:24-26)

Just like an employee who wonders “why?” might ask the question, “What’s in it for me?”, before he does something, it’s easy for us Christians to ask the same, especially when it comes to the often difficult task of evangelizing. The real question should not be, “What’s in it for me?”, but “What’s in it for someone else?”.  Jesus made this inference when he explained the second Great Commandment, “Love your neighbor as yourself!” (Mt 22:39) 

So, the answer to, “What’s in it for someone else?”, is that they will find a relationship with Jesus, the One Who redeems us and leads us to “God [who}, infinitely perfect and blessed in Himself, in a plan of sheer goodness freely created man to make him share in His own blessed life.” (CCC1).

And the answer to, “What’s in it for me?”, is the grace in knowing that correctly answering, “What’s in it for someone else?”, might simply be your salvation!

“Heavenly Father, thank You for Your love and presence in my life, for the desire to place myself in Your presence, and to bring others into Your presence, as well.  Amen.”

(Why You Should Evangelize was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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From the Archives: What Shall I Do, Lord?

25 Thursday Jan 2024

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(A reflection on Acts 22:10)

Today, we celebrate the Feast of the Conversion of St. Paul. As I meditated on today’s Scripture, I had a deja vu feeling I had been there before. Looking back, I discovered I’d offered a reflection four years ago today, and decided it was worth sharing again. 

We are all called to proclaim the Gospel. How we do that begins with each of us asking the question:

What Shall I Do, Lord?

On this Feast of the Conversion of St. Paul we hear St. Paul ask, “What shall I do, Lord?”, after he is blinded on his way to Damascus to arrest Christians. His question is proof of his instant conversion to follow Christ.

It’s a good question for each of us to ask every day, as well, if we desire to follow Christ and grow in holiness. There’s no better way to begin one’s day than through meditation asking the Lord to reveal His will for us. It’s our job, then, to listen and make a resolution to go do it.

“Heavenly Father, through St. Paul and the other Apostles, the faith was spread throughout the world. As I celebrate his conversion today, I pray that I may follow his witness in at least my little part of the world. Amen.”

(From the Archives: What Shall I Do, Lord?, was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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Finding Peace In The One Who Is Really In Charge

25 Wednesday Nov 2020

Posted by Jerry Robinson in Peace, Trust

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Allegiance, Catholic, Christ the King, Election 2020, Evangelization, Lk 21:12-19, Peace, Politics, Ps 98:9, Rv 15:1-4, Trust

Christ, the King of the Universe

It’s been twenty two days now since the U.S. presidential election.  And, it’s been over thirty days since I’ve checked any news source to see how the election went down.  I’ve not watched television, read a newspaper, listened to the radio, or ventured onto social media.  I did stop by a friends house on Thursday evening after the election and he had his television on with election coverage.  It seemed there was yet to be declared a winner because of evidence of voter fraud in some states.  By now, that could even be old news.  I wouldn’t know and I have no interest in finding out anything more. I will learn when the time is right.  But, for now, I am at peace.

I am not a very political person in the first place, but I did vote for my preferred candidate.  I voted my conscience, which was guided by my faith, and for what I thought was best for the future of America.  Beyond that, there was not much I could do to affect the outcome other than pray that God’s will be done…. and hope that it matched mine.  Yes, like most folks, I have my concerns of how life will be if the election goes opposite of the way I would like.  

In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells us, “they will seize and persecute you… have you led before kings and governors….and you will be hated by all because of my name, but not a hair on your head will be destroyed.  By your perseverance you will secure your lives.“ (Lk 21:12-19)  The day may come when I am indeed persecuted, but I’ve decided I will not let it disturb my peace of mind and heart. 

I found I was losing that peace by allowing myself to get caught up in the pre-election noise and angry vitriol that was being spewed from both camps.  I’ve been voting for forty-four years and, although this is nothing new, I’ve never seen our nation as polarized as it is now, nor as divided between good and evil.

To compound my disillusionment with the whole mess, I sadly noticed that many people on social media who professed to be Christian, fellow Catholics included, were equally offensive.  The Christian faithful, in defense of their candidates and moral beliefs, seemed all too eager and willing to join in the artillery battle and retaliate by lobbing an equal number of bombs on their opponent.  For a child of the Cold War, it conjured up visions of a nuclear holocaust where he-who-runs-out-of-bombs-first is the loser when in fact everybody loses.  Eventually, someone will hold the office as the next President.  But, whichever way it falls, the character of our country has already suffered crippling losses because the morally right allowed themselves to be drug down from the mountain and into the muck.   

I wondered if a non-Catholic who knows that we are called to love our neighbor even when a part of us might wish he or she would get run over by a beer truck would recognize us by our words and actions?  It seemed to me that, in our Christian parlance, we hated the sinner and anyone associated with the sinner as much or more as we hated their sins.  Anyone who might have been considering joining our Catholic ranks could easily have deduced that our faith was in one political party or the other and not with Jesus Christ, himself.

Life is full of hard times and unpleasant circumstances – difficulties which we do not like, do not choose and cannot change – that go against our will and cause us grief.  Politics is simply one of  those circumstances.  You have only a fifty-fifty chance of being satisfied with the outcome.  God doesn’t create the outcome to be viewed as punishment for those who don’t get their way.  But, He allows it for the purpose of a greater good to be realized.  We are not God so we don’t have the inside scoop on what that greater good will be.  But, we are called to have faith, a faith that accepts that all will work out well for those who love and trust in Him.  Thus, anyone who finds themselves either overly ecstatic or depressed by the election outcome has placed their faith in a human being instead of God.

As Catholics, we are called to evangelize, a job at which, I admit, we are not very effective.  But, I can’t imagine that Jesus intended for us to evangelize by placing our faith in a political party and then beating the other side over the head with it.  If anything, we are called to have such a strong trust in His will that we are willing to turn the other cheek.  Rather than expending so much energy frustratingly trying to change other’s political views that don’t match up morally with our own, we ought, instead, to be putting our effort into living virtuously, making friends with people, getting to know them and understanding why they believe what they believe.  We might learn something and they might become open and comfortable to do the same with us Catholics, thus opening the door for us to introduce or reintroduce them to Jesus Christ.  Is this not what the early Christians did while they were being persecuted during that first three hundred years after Christ’s death?  Are they not the ones who, per today’s first reading are those who are “standing on the sea of glass”, “who have won victory over the beast”, and who are singing, “the song of the Lamb” (Rv 15:1-4)? 

You might think that I, by choosing to not follow the election coverage, don’t care about what’s going on in our nation, about all its problems and lack of unity.  You’d be wrong.  I care so much that I want to focus my efforts on what I believe are the root problems, namely a lack of faith and virtue, and a departure from the moral values inscribed on our hearts by our Creator.  I choose to turn my back on the one-sidedness of the news media, and ignore the anxiety to which the world would have us fall prey and which causes us to lose hope.  It may feel as though the world is going to hell in a hand-basket but I refuse to let it steal my peace.  Nor will I allow it to make me live my life worrying about the future.  The future is in good hands with God.  He will come, “to govern the world with justice and the peoples with fairness.”  (Ps 98:9)

This last Sunday morning, as I walked out of church after Mass, at which we celebrated the Solemnity of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, King of the Universe, two friends began to complain about the election not knowing that I have chosen to remain reclusive with respect to the media.  I quickly raised my hand to signal resistance, let them know that I did not know where the election stood, and politely asked them to not spoil it for me.  Then, in response to their confused looks, I explained that, for me, no matter who wins the Presidency, the real One Who was, is, and will forever be in charge is He Who was raised to His throne by being hung on a cross.  He brings me peace and, in Him, I place my faith, trust and allegiance.  

In whom do you place your faith, trust and allegiance?  Does that one bring true and everlasting peace to your soul?  Are you inviting chaos and anxiety into your life and allowing the bitter dissonance of the world to control you?  There is a better way – a way of faith, hope and love in Jesus Christ.

“Heavenly Father, on this day before our National Day of Thanksgiving, I give You thanks that I live in the greatest nation ever created.  We may have our problems, but there’s no physical place, economic or political system on earth better than the United States of America.  I pray that we turn to Your Son, Jesus, as our guiding light, and for the fortitude to bring others to Him.  I pray for the intercession of our Mother Mary, to whom our great nation is consecrated, to protect us under her mantle from the Evil One.  Amen.”

(Finding Peace In The One Who Is Really In Charge, was first published on the blog Reflections of a Lay Catholic)

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